10 of the most romantic gardens from the pages of House & Garden
I have visited hundreds of gardens over the past 25 years, and I think I could describe just a handful of them as truly ‘romantic’. For me, a romantic garden has a certain je ne sais quoi that you can’t quite put your finger on. It is usually about the atmosphere of the place, the feeling you get when you walk around.
In terms of plants it is certainly the rose that wins the prize for most romantic flower. Linked to Aphrodite, Greek goddess of love, and Venus, Roman goddess of beauty and desire, it has been associated with love and romance since ancient times. It is also a bloom that feels very English, although most are not native to our shores. I’d say that almost all the gardens I describe as romantic would have a rose or two in them, and most would be in England. Isabel and Julian Bannerman’s gardens are often described in this way - and their creations are full of roses and sometimes faux ruins. Their own garden in Somerset is certainly romantic, a sensory paradise with borders stuffed full of scented roses, lilac, tobacco plants and sweet Williams, and an old-fashioned orchard billowing with cow parsley.
But there are romantic gardens abroad too. A garden like Ninfa in Italy is deeply romantic to me, with its ruined buildings clad in climbing roses and a river running gently through like a scene from a fairytale. Interestingly, this is a garden created in the English style, very different to the formal topiary often associated with Italian gardens. I also describe the garden of Rohuna in Morocco as romantic - and this too has wild tangles of roses up on the hillside overlooking the sea - but it is as far from an English garden as you can get. Its creator, Umberto Pasti, tells the romantic story of how he fell asleep under an olive tree on the bare hillside 30 years ago and woke up knowing he had to make a garden there. So perhaps it is also about the stories behind each garden, and a sense of history and intrigue. Above all, I think romantic gardens should be immersive and sensory, places you can step into and be transported into another world.